“That Love is a Realization of yourself. It’s an Acceptance. It’s an Embracing of yourself in every single breath and every point of your existence; whether you are in the physical, whether you are a dog, whether you are a horse, whether you are stone, whether you are the bed we sit on, whether you are an ‘angel’, whether you are in Heaven – doesn’t matter where you are:
That is why at Desteni we say: Self-Forgiveness, to forgive yourself that you have dared to deny Life. In every way that you have done that – you have to Forgive Yourself. Because only you can do that, because you know where you do it in thought, word and deed. You know where you are denying another, Life, equally to you; where you are judging another, blaming another, where you regard yourself as more or less.” – Bernard Poolman
Reacting to comments. I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to react in anger when others make ‘comments’ to me, not seen/realizing what others say only reflect their mind, so reacting to them is pointless, waste of my breath.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to react in anger when I saw some comments I interpret as nasty.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to react in anger, and desire to hit them back with nastiness because I believe that I am wronged by others.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge others as mean and nasty.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see/realize each is LIFE, hence my anger, my judgment towards another is putting LIFE down, in that making me more. So reacting, judging another is not the way, rather, forgive myself and let go of the reactions, and speak to the being in commonsense, in a stable voice/tone without a ‘reaction’. Because I see/realize reactions never bring solution.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see/realize each is LIFE, so reacting, blaming, judging, getting angry at another, etc, are saying I am MORE than you, hence, I am MORE than LIFE. This is not acceptable I am NOT more than LIFE, I am not MORE than you, I am not LESS than you, and I am equal to you. I honor this equality by realizing that equality, and not judging, not blaming, not seeking attention, not reacting etc. it’s like water, at the same height/pressure there is no movement, as the parts stand in equal to each other. Likewise, if I stand equal another, there is no movement (in the form of judgment, or seeking attention, or wanting to be noticed, reacting, getting angry, liking, disliking etc), as all that is a movement I experience towards another. That’s why breathing is the key, because in and as breathing, I cut the down ‘movement’ towards another, and in that I stand like tree in equality to another, yet can communicate, agree, even disagree, construct, build, make love, unite, do things together, as all that practical stuff is happening without ‘movement’ as such.
Walking into a room full of people, the tendency to seek attention depends on who is in the room, if there are persons whose attention I seek/like then, yes entering a room is fun, and if no such person is there, then it is boring, that’s why as I enter a room, I will “scan” to see whose attention I must get/seek/like/want, etc. this way of living sucks totally.
I forgive myself for judging ‘attention seeking’ as sucks, not seen/realizing in judging myself or another, or any situation, I am in fact putting something/someone down, making it less than life.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see/realize, judging another is putting them down, making them less than life. Instead I seek to understand their history, background, mind-conditioning, etc, what makes the being who he/she is, for him/her to speak like that, in understanding them I let go of my actions to them. Otherwise, I react to their words, and they in turn react to my action, hence the cycle of spiteful reaction continues, just like how the sins of the fathers continue from one age to another, so if I don’t stop reacting, the vicious cycle of reacting, judging, spite will continue. It must stop within me.
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