day 575: Not taking things personally is great support for others

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to take the words “I hate you” very personally, not seeing/realizing people are going through stresses or tension within themselves, for which they believe others/me as the cause. Within this I direct myself to not take those words personally, also to support them to see/realize how to look through the stresses to find solutions, I mean otherwise we are stuck at our mind positions born out of stress.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see/realize by taking their words like “I hate you” personally, I am actually giving their insane minds more power, I see/realize every person is a Mind Conscious System, which is extremely unreliable and unsteady, and so by taking their words personally I am only making the unreal real. So I direct myself to ask questions, hear, listen and understand their issues instead of taking their upsetting words personally and making the situation even worse. Me getting upset, annoyed, hurt etc, is not going to change anything, but by remaining stable within myself, by not taking their words personally, I am giving space, and allowing solutions to be found. I mean, when a person is really upset, the best support to give them is not take their words personally. I think, I would like that from others when I speak shit, or I am upset or in a bad mood. Sometimes people do lose their minds so nasty words will follow, so the best support to give in such moments is not take those words seriously or personally. I mean, when they calm down or at a later time, we can always revisit such situations to correct them, so to avoid future replay of it.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see/realize not too long ago, I was a demon myself, as I have spoken the mother of all nasty words to people in my life in a blink of an eye without any consideration whatsoever, so I see/realize, the value of support I can give by not taking nasty words personally, because in doing so, they can actually see the madness for themselves. I am grateful to people who didn’t take my words back then very seriously, I mean, looking back, what if they had acted out or, what if my words back then had ‘pushed them over’, I mean, the consequences I will be facing today would ‘hellish’, fortunately, they were able to not take my words personally and were able to ‘brush aside’ without further compounding, for that I am grateful. So I direct myself to see/realize, there is great support given when I don’t’ take things too seriously or personally; it might even encourage others to ‘open their eyes’ to the madness that’s happening. Not taking things personally is a great point of support. 

 

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